Just load impatient from init

if will be called multiple times if present in lazy_load.lua which is
  totallly unnecessary

why even from there ?

Yes, this does not affect the --startuptime

lua/core/lazy_load.lua

@@ -10,7 +10,6 @@ M.lazy_load = function(tb)
     callback = function()
       if tb.condition() then
         vim.api.nvim_del_augroup_by_name(tb.augroup_name)
-        pcall(require, "impatient")
 
         -- dont defer for treesitter as it will show slow highlighting
         -- This deferring only happens only when we do "nvim filename"